PRIMARY

BUILDER

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Director

(he also shows elements of this type)

Patrick

49 | San Diego, California

Looking for that special woman

He is an executive and tends to be consistent, reliable, thorough and persevering.

He likes people and is generally comfortable with them. He also likes concrete and focused conversations on everything from trivia to the important topics of the day.

He needs a partner who is devoted to family, sensible with money, responsible with possessions, compassionate, and wants to have detailed and informed conversations.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • It is important to respect authority
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct

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Performing arts

Spirituality

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

At this moment, I’m looking for a woman to relax and enjoy an evening out, a day at the beach, or other activity where we both can have fun and get to know each other. Of course, I would like to find someone to share my life with, but that doesn’t mean that friendship is out of the question. I’ve been single for two years and I’m ready to take a chance and see who’s out there. The combination of a startup financial services business, a call-up from the reserves back onto active duty in military special forces, while raising young children, proved to be more than my marriage could handle. But, the financial services business is now doing very well, the call-up is over, and my children are older and more independent – all beautiful girls ages eight, five, and four. There is a stable structure in place so that I can spend a lot of time with them while still having my own time. Life is more complex than it was 12 years ago when I was last single, but I’m willing to devote my time and my emotions in a relationship with the right woman. The right woman for me is one that I am completely relaxed and happy to be with regardless of what we are doing – it is more about the chemistry than a list. A pastor at my church said something to a group of single men and woman to get our attention that has always stood out in my mind. The pastor asked, “if God had the perfect man or woman would he set them up with you?” Ouch. That was a long time ago, but it changed my perspective forever. I continue to work at being the best man, father, and I hope husband again that I can be. If you have a similar perspective, the chemistry will be there.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral