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53 | San Diego, California

Hey are going to eat that? (Something I may say at a nice place) I love humor. I use it to defuse tension at work all the time.

He is an executive and tends to be consistent, reliable, thorough and persevering.

He likes people and is generally comfortable with them. He also likes concrete and focused conversations on everything from trivia to the important topics of the day.

He needs a partner who is devoted to family, sensible with money, responsible with possessions, compassionate, and wants to have detailed and informed conversations.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful

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I like to be available and I like her to be as well. Not clingy but just a companion I can do things with. I am bold when it comes to confronting strangers but I get shy around women for some reason. I have always been loyal to my girlfriends but some of them have betrayed me. I like to hold hands, I like to touch, and I like physical contact. I'm not an Octopus but I like to have my companion know that she is special. I believe in compromise and sharing. The right person can make a day at the landfill fun. We will not be going to the landfill. I have become more sensitive in the last couple of years. I am not afraid to share this. I think it makes me stronger and allows people to trust me more. My ideal match would have similar traits. I think she would want to share her good days and her bad days with me. I would lift her up when she was down and she would do likewise. I really believe in the partnership thing. I want a friend and a companion who likes me for me. I will let her know that as well. My bad habits are not that bad. I sometimes procrastinate when there is a big project pending but with a little nudge I will take care of the task. I am neat but not a neat freak. I am a t shirt and jeans kind of guy but I clean up nice when I need to. I know right away if there is even a shot with someone special based on the first kiss. If the kiss is good my relationships were at least good for a while. If the kiss is awkward...well awkward is what we have. I wont BS a woman about how I feel. I will try to be nice but Ive learned to not sugarcoat the bad stuff. If its good then that person is going to get my best. I like having someone. I will work to keep that person. Their happiness means everything to me. I think I have a lot to offer. I want that person to be as honest with me. I am honest. Its just easier. Humor. I love a sense of humor. I love practical jokes and love having them played on me if they don't cause mass destruction of property and loss of life. Fina

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any