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28 | San Diego, California

Not to sound conceited but I'm the guy girls say they want but never go for. "I just want to be all the things you are to me" is my motto.

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am more analytical and logical than most people
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

I'm not quite sure how I should go about this. It feels weird to try and sell my myself. Plus it's hard to do without sounding full of myself. Anyway let's give it a go. Like I said in the quick summary I'm the type of guy that girls say they want but never go for. I'm unselfish and recognize that a relationship takes work. Whether it's as big as a surprise romantic camping trip, or as small as grabbing ice cream for you as we watch a movie on the couch. I enjoy making my girlfriend happy, but so far that sentiment hasn't been reciprocated. I know it's weird but my two best friends keep saying if they were girls they would date me, which I find hilarious. As far as what I'm looking for in a woman, above all I need someone who isn't selfish. I've been there done that, and I'm tired of girls who aren't mature enough to put work into our relationship. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a massage and four course meal everyday. I think you might be surprised how much bringing me a beer would mean to me. Other than that I would love to be able to play video games and technology with you. It would also be fun to share my love of sports and my passion for beer. But these are definitely not things I require. If we are interested in different things, then let's share with each other! I guess what to expect socially from me is someone who like the intimate, at-home atmosphere. I would much rather talk philosophy over drinks and board games than go to a club. Now that's not to say I don't enjoy it, but it's not my thing. I do enjoy bars, but the kind of bars that don't have loud, crazy, wasted 21 year olds. But I do like going to the beach or bowling and stuff like that. Sea World with friends is very fun too. I think another big thing about me is my sense of humor. I can dish out and take a joke better than anyone. I try to be witty and make people laugh, and if I'm with the right people I can have the worst sense of humor imaginable. I like to have fun, a

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with parents
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 30
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any