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33 | San Diego, California

not footing the bill for an over 30, single mom, that's been riding the cock carousel past 20 years. I'm not settling:)

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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in his own words...

I'm here and I'm not expecting much. I'm a member of MGTOW or men going their own way. It means that I am not looking for marriage or an institution or giving everything away when a woman ran by her emotions decides to divorce me. She could decide I don't make enough money so I work more but then will cheat on me with the plumber because, " she needs attention." Sorry I'm not going to make the mortgage and master bedroom furniture payment, pay for your bastard kids while you screw another guy in MY house and on MY bed I'm paying for because you as a typical woman are "finding yourself," while I drive to my one bedroom apartment. Also I'm not dedicating my resources to raise another man's child. I went to graduate school and university for many years to make good money and have my own family not foot the bill for the bad boy that left your pregnant. Look up the definition of cuckold. That is not me. Also my emotional needs are not going to take backseat to another man's child. I'm looking for a Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn relationship. I am not a doormat or a toy for you to "fix", "train" or bully or push around. Yep, I got my requirements as I'm sure you do too just mine aren't a mile long. I prefer to have a real relationship with a real woman and I am not settling for second best over 30 year old woman that's been riding the cock carousel. This is what I'm not looking for: girls that are insecure, playing games, think they are the center of the universe, or use online dating as a self esteem booster. I already have enough friends and I don't need any female friends because that will cause my future girlfriend to be jealous later anyways.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 25
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree