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50 | San Diego, California

Love is a game two can play and both can win. :)

She is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet she also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those she loves.

Because she is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, her close friends admire her. Yet her complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

She is attracted to someone who can complement her-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • I am always doing new things

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in her own words...

I feel I bring a lot of positives to a relationship. I do what it takes in life to get things done but when possible do them with lots of fun and laughter. I enjoy camping to fine dining but also some of the simpler things, too. It gives me pleasure to make the people in my life happy with delicious food, and a cozy environment. Dinner parties with good friends and family are always a great time. I'd best fit with someone who also has a positive outlook on life, doesn’t take himself too seriously but knows the importance of responsibility, honesty, and loyalty. You'll like to travel, take weekend getaways from wild nights in Vegas to quiet retreats. You'll have an open mind and are willing try almost anything. I also want to know I can depend on you, but not be dependant on you. I realize we won’t always share the same opinions but we will respect and understand each other regardless. I have a silly/fun side, and a well-mannered professional side, too. It would be fun if you were similar and we could explore them together! I believe there needs to be instant chemistry. It's been my experience without it, it just doesn't work. Obviously, it has to go deeper, too. I think great looks are very stimulating, but I think they're even better paired with great conversation. I do have two children (9 & 13). Being an excellent mother, role model and raising good people is very important to me. I'm fortunate to have a good relationship with my ex who I do share custody with. With that being said, I have time in my life to give my best to whoever that may end up being. :) I want to meet someone who loves life for all its possibilities, its coming adventures, but understands it's all about balance. Look forward to hearing all about you! Cheers-

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 46
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral