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Jay

38 | San Diego, California

I used to think I was indecisive, but now I'm not too sure

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I think consistent routines keep life orderly and relaxing

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His 22 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Fishing/Hunting

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in his own words...

About Me Umm....lets see, call me a cynic but I'm not the best person to fill one of these things in. I'm sure you will have read hundreds of these profiles already, where the guys got his shirt off, and flexing in his glamour shots or in his mirror. He wants something serious, and hes never cheated in his life and so on and so on. Well I'm not like that at all. I'm not here for one night stands and the like. I believe in soul mates and I've always maintained theres someone for everyone. I feel most of us are here for that reason. It is tough to meet people in the real world while maintaining our professional lives. That is why we are here. Most of us know what meeting, and dating people you've met in bars is like(worse for girls). With that in mind instead of making up a load of rubbish, on the off chance some shallow girl will find it attractive, I'll instead come out and say what all my good and bad points are. That along with my pictures, (oh yes! those are my glamour shots) ;) you will get an idea of what im like and what im not. My Goods: Ive got a great sense of humour (no really) I am loyal Totally genuine Confident Optimistic and ambitious Fun to be around I don't do drugs I don't smoke I take regular showers, and am big on hygiene I have a career I am a good driver I am honest...well I'm not one for lying anyway I know there is more but its a secret and it will cost you The Bads: I can be pretty shy, but break out of that pretty quickly I can be grumpy at times I am not very metro with my clothing and style(but coachable) :) I do not have a six pack and rock hard body, although Im working on it ;) but by no means overweight I'm stubborn at times I can be pretty sensitive and I wear my heart on my shoulders Well thats me in a nutshell, and I may have weeded out some, but if you like then :) Thanks for reading my profile and I look forward to talking with you. If not I wish all you ladies the best of luck in your search. ;)

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 38
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any