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47 | San Diego, California

Looking for a play partner, someone to share moments or share life, give me time and be patient.

She is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet she has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

She gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

She tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate her rugged individualism and support of her drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things
  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in her own words...

It’s sort of odd to say, but throughout my life, the thing I’ve been told that people first notice about me is actually my very calm and amiable presence. I guess it shouldn’t surprise me much though, I am incredibly happy and content with all that life’s presented me. I have four awesome kids (that come and go); a successful and challenging career; and an indispensable community of close family and friends who support me in all that I do. I’m intelligent, honest, and find my personal motivation in uncompromising integrity however I’m not cold, arrogant, or controlling. I actually have a very warm, fun loving, and animated side to me, one that adores just spending an afternoon laughing and joking with the ones I love. I’m also extremely compassionate and understanding. I’ve always put the needs of others in front of my own and I know wholeheartedly that you have to give your all to make sure a relationship works (it’s not magic). All I’m missing is that special someone who’ll fill my life with romance and my face with constant blushes. So, who is that? Well, I’m hoping to find a man who really complements my own personality. He enjoys quiet, but deep, conversations; thrives on simple and intimate moments together; and can’t wait to get out there and experience all of the new discoveries and journeys the world has to offer, right there by my side. On a final note, I’m only looking for guys who’re interested in a long-term relationship. It’s okay if we ease ourselves into it, but no serial daters please.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Other

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral