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43 | San Diego, California

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He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • I think it is important to be direct

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I am recently divorced and actually looking for someone to just kick back and go out with. I am not looking for a commitment AT ALL. If we can get along via email/chat, it would be nice to hook up for a cup of coffee, out for a walk on the beach, or maybe even dinner and/or a movie (sounds like a date, huh?). I am not the guy you want to get into a long term relationship with. I'm pretty burnt on relationships right now and looking to just take care of my daughter first and myself second, which is a great segue to my next topic... I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter who is the light of my life. I have her 3-4 days out of the week and share the time with her mother. Her mother and I are cool and our relationship has evolved to being good friends (we have to to raise our child without drama). My ideal girl wouldn't just not consider a relationship due to my "baggage". Anyone who feels this way has not met my kid. Seriously, she will make you love her at first sight just like she does with anyone she meets. I'm looking for someone who is confident in herself. I DON'T LIKE JEALOUS GIRLS, which points to self-esteem issues. I am optimistic about life and my ideal girl would be as well. Life is too short to be a pessimist. Oh by the way, I HATE COMPLAINERS!! If you think life just straight up sucks and the world is against you, do us both a favor and please don't contact me. I can spot that crap from a mile away and it is a real downer! For someone who still lives with his mom (temporarily as this is home-base until I figure out what I am going to do), I am a confident guy with a solid job and career background. I can be ghetto at times since I was raised in the hood, but definitely a gentleman and a scholar. I can kick it with gang-bangers, or the president of a Fortune 500 company and not even blink, so I am fairly easy to get along with. Thanks for your time and looking forward to chatting!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with parents
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 36
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral