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Tom

43 | San Diego, California

Down to earth with my head in the clouds.

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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Camping

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

in his own words...

I am very open minded, easy going and intelligent, clean cut and disciplined. I take pride in being a gentleman in public at least! Im a bit reserved until I get to know someone, but Im not shy. I believe in being a good citizen and having fun. I enjoy the outdoors, especially the ocean. I am also a true Gemini in that I exemplify many polar opposites in myself and in many ways it helps me be more balanced. I think I would be more comfortable around someone who has made some mistakes or lived a colorful life, like a bit of spice I suppose. I am looking for someone who is playful and can be spontaneous. While I am attracted to and respect independent women, I prefer to lead the relationship, since I feel that allows a woman to relax and allow her natural "femaleness" to flow through.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college