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56 | San Diego, California

“The Quite Man”

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I do things on the spur of the moment
  • It is important to respect authority
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions

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in his own words...

How to describe myself? Lets keep this simple like the title says... “The Quite Man”... That’s me ... I'm a real life Shawn Thornton (John Wayne) I'm not a ex Boxer but retired US Navy and other things... I honestly have the personality and swagger down no act that's been me since I was a wee Lad... I'm looking for my dream woman, If your the Maureen O'Hara type, A full figured with all the right curves, 50's style... Ok I'm old fashioned born 2 generations too late... Nothing sexier than a flaming red haired woman with fire in her soul... I like... The color is optional any will do but the passion and fire is not.... I'm rebuilding my life from the ground up and I want to do it right this time. If you have no idea what I'm about watch the movie and if you go for it hit me up and lets see I have a full Romance Resume, I guess that's what it's called for you to get to know me better if there is a spark.... I would be nice to hear from you Ladies, I’ve not had much luck getting responses from this forum, It must be my hair color....

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any