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64 | San Diego, California

Gentle at heart, lonely and need a woman

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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in his own words...

I believe in living life to the fullest and I’m looking for a best friend and lover to share all the good things it has to offer. I’ll skip the “all about me” speech, because, let’s face it, character is better judged by others, but maybe you can get a little about who I am through what I’m looking for in a partner. I am confident without being cocky, I'm very direct, I play fair, and I am one of those people who can talk to anyone and treat people with respect no matter what position in life they are in. I am genuinely interested in other's perspectives and their experiences and what makes them tick, as I believe that there is something to be learned from everyone. I appreciate depth and soul. Imperfect is somehow perfect to me. I look for reasons to accept. I'm selective, and don't we all appreciate good looks, but I am tired of people who look great on the outside but have little else to offer.. great looks have as much to do what's on the inside. I would definitely trade off some outside looks for someone with a good heart. It would be nice if you were ALREADY interested and involved in fitness and are at least somewhat familiar with the term " eating clean" as it would give us a common interest and perspective from the very beginning. I am not intimidated by an accomplished, independent, decisive, somewhat headstrong woman. Being sexy is aluring but self respect is an aphrodisiac in itself... please back up and read that again. As for me, I'd rather be wanted than needed; but when a relationship is mature both are what I call balance. We all have busy lives, but ideally I'd like to find someone who has the time to spend with me. We all know that chemistry is important, but it’s a pretty fickle beast with a mind all of its own, so rather than focus on what my ideal partner would look like, I’ll tell you what I value in a woman.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any