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55 | San Diego, California

Pursuit Of Happiness

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am able to solve problems without letting emotion get in the way
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I am very empathetic

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Dining out







Watching sports

Wine tasting


in his own words...

I am considered to be a romantic man, smiley blue eyes, fair hair - lots of it, slight greying at the temples. Own teeth, hair etc. I love to dance, my technique is to 'feel' the music, move and hope I randomly hit the beat rather than concentrate on the perfect steps. I can tell you a story and make others laugh. I believe that I know what I'm about, but don't necessarily have all the answers... I can see the subtlety of life but also make room for others along the way... I've been told that I'm intelligent, elegant, sophisticated, witty, big-hearted, fun, spontaneous, aypical, kind with a zest for life. I consider myself to be articulate, honest, caring, sensitive and try not to take myself or life too seriously and although confident, I am able to have a good laugh at myself at times. I have a passion for travel and enjoy motoring in the countryside, stopping along the way to enjoy a nice meal, in a pub/restaurant with a blazing log fire. I enjoy sharing a glass of wine with a meal, but otherwise I'm not a big drinker. I have plenty of room in my heart for a special relationship. I like to think that I understand a woman's needs and consider myself to be passionate and patient man. I would like to meet someone who is caring, affectionate, loyal, emotionally secure (happy enough 'in her own skin' to put a photo of herself on her profile for example) but at the same time may sometimes feel in need of someone to be there to share life’s ups and downs. A woman that I can cherish, look after, and spoil and I hope, she will do the same. I have long understood how important it is to be able to talk about your day, for me to listen as you unload your days events over an evening meal, or a glass of wine. I'm not a bad cook, although don't enjoy cooking meals for one, but love cooking together, chatting over a glass of wine in the kitchen.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 47 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • education:
    • Any