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49 | San Diego, California

Cheese, Jeez'', agh sorry! Active, smart, open minded, well traveled, growth oriented curious guy looking for my equal Partner.

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

I want to spend the rest of my life with a giving and kind hearted woman I don't have control with who is looking for me and I just don't want to be with a woman I want be with a woman who likes to be with me as much as I like to be with them and I can fall in love with. I am a very loyal person who enjoys every moment in life and challenge myself to better everyday I know I have a lot to work on and I am not perfect everyday is fun to learn new things. I'm a super motivated guy that is fun loving, independent and loves the companionship of many good friends and loved ones. I am very optimistic and always look for the positive in any situation. I don't have a lot of patience for chronic negativity. I'm just in a place in my life where I think I've finally figured out what I want, what makes me happy (and what doesn't) and how to get it. (that one, however, is a forever work in progress) I have an amazing job that I really love and an incredible daughter that my world turns around. The interesting part is when I finally grab her, I hope we have a healthy long term relationship where we can be authentic around each other, we have chemistry and passion, and bring out the best in one another. I believe there is someone out there for me where we just click with each other, share a strong bond, have some common hobbies, and similar core values. We have open communication, trust, and the ability to have fun, laugh, challenge each other, travel and stay healthy, and grow our future together (I promise it won't be dull). My friends would describe me as classic, driven, loyal, witty, silly, honest, individual who can hold his own in a conversation, and a gentle-man you can take home to Mom and Dad. I'm open to many kinds of woman and I know I'm not looking for the "perfect" woman. I am looking for woman who is comfortable being her authentic self. THAT is interesting and sexy to me. Balance is key. I enjoy being with people who know how to mix in multiple kinds of cirlce.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • More than $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • Graduate or professional degree