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48 | Los Angeles, California

I want to meet a woman who's kind, smart and beautiful, who knows that the best things in life are those yet to be learned.

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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Wine tasting

in his own words...

I'm not shy in the beginning. I grew up around the world, so I'm used to being among people I don't know, and I like getting to know them. It's later that I have trouble, when it's time to open up and share who I am and what matters most to me. I'm working on it. I'm smart - not a genius, though smart enough to know I'm not one. I've studied a lot and think a lot in my work. I take pride in it, hopefully not too much. I'm a kind person. I like the details of being considerate - helping out strangers, doing little things that are good to do, but that no one will thank you for. I want to be exemplary in the classic sense of the word - I want to be an example of a kind person. I fail at it plenty- I make snarky comments, or take the last appetizer, or something else. But I think and act positively as much as I can. That doesn't mean I don't like irony or cynical humor. I do, but as the topping, not the dish. I don't want to be around people trapped in their blackness. I'm working to make myself a better person physically, as well. I've let career and personal life drift me into irregular exercise and too many big restaurant meals. I'm enjoying feeling better, eating better, being healther. I love a good conversation, though I prefer that it be about something. I love discussing a great movie I just saw, or something I just read about. It doesn't have to be intellectual; emotional response is just as interesting. I'm into travel and movies and restaurants, and I love combining the three - visiting a new city during a film festival to see the sights, watch the movies, try the local food. I've found that as much as I enjoy experiences, I enjoy remembering them even more. I'm much more into spending money on experiences than on things. Things always tarnish, memories always shine. That's six paragraphs that begin with "I" or "I'm" Does that make me a narcissist? I hope not - it didn't work out too well for Narcissus. The question is:

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 34 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral