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62 | Los Angeles, California

You're born, you die. This is the middle. Life's too short for anything but honesty.

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I like to figure out how things work

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in her own words...

About me: I do not respond to "winks". Being on a path to healing I have become non-judgmental, compassionate, and a great listener. Am an attentive and thoughtful friend, and listen with my heart open. I am letting go of all belief systems and identities, and living in the body that has resulted from a lifetime of trauma. Looking forward to greater physical activity and resulting better health. If we choose to, it's never too late to change anything about ourselves. I am an educated, articulate, and insightful writer; funny as all get out! I love languages, I love to read (no bestsellers), write, have spirited discussions about spiritual matters. I like board games and cards. I love music, an eclectic blend. I have great rapport with my adult children, and two rescue mutts who are my constant companions, but not needy. :) I am active in social justice causes: LGBT and civil rights, women's empowerment, identifying and stopping childhood abuse, growth and educational opportunity for all children. Disclaimer: Am in the process of integrating recovered repressed memories of childhood sexual abuse. If this is uncomfortable for you, then this is not a good match for now. About you Looking for someone who is interested in more than boats or cars or watching/playing sports. If hunting, fishing, drinking are a big part of your social life, please accept my sympathy and resignation. One who is on a path to self-discovery, and open to questioning past beliefs. One who has learned that all love begins with self-acceptance, and is in a loving relationship with himself. Coming from a place of content rather than from need. Anyone dented or scraped by life who has learned to be true to himself, lives his most authentic self and speaks his truth; who treats himself with love and respect. Someone who has let the challenges and downfalls of his living help him to grow spiritually, and found the lesson of each experience. Financially self-sufficient as I am.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • Other

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 52 - 62
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral