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John

53 | Los Angeles, California

I recognize I will have to learn to date all over again with the changes in life,

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

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Photography

in his own words...

Five years from now, I want to be in a happy and loving marriage .The exterior of a person, what they look like, what they have is far less important to me than who a person is on the inside. I am attracted to bright, funny man who make me laugh, but character matters above all else. I have gone out with women who are “not my type” and been very pleasantly surprised. I no longer consider myself as having a “type” and remain open to the possibility that the love of my life will look or be completely different then what I ever would have imagined.Let’s give each other a chance and not write each other off too quickly. I also find people become much more interesting, beautiful and special as I get to know them really well. I love to laugh, smile and have a good time. For me fun involves being with people I love and care about, being intimate, playing, engaging in deep and meaningful conversations, going to new places and experiencing the beauty of life and nature. I am smart, deep, funny, but have a serious side as well. I am emotionally available, open minded, passionate, thoughtful, gregarious, warm and considerate. I work to become a better person every single day and I especially appreciate when people view life as a fascinating and exciting journey. As you get to know me I open up and I have lots of character and personality. I am a great listener and I am genuinely interested in others. I have a lot of compassion and empathy, putting myself in another person’s shoes; I am able to appreciate perspectives different from my own.I am very fortunate that I have a fulfilling and decent life. I have good friends, family and career. I would love someone special in my life who I can give and receive love, share important moments, create lasting memories, smile, laugh, play and have a good time. I like the idea of being friends first and really getting to know each other. When we can truly savor each other’s company and form a deep respect for one another this serves as

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Grey
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 41 - 69
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
    • Every day
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral
    • No formal education