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Brian

51 | Los Angeles, California

Erections do not count as personal growth.

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules

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His 14 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

in his own words...

I’m just a month back from 2 1/2 years traveling. I originally left for a month’s vacation and came back almost three years later after a multi-city tour of the states, Mexico and Europe. I don’t have to travel for work, but I can work from anywhere. Generally, I’m a home-body, but love adventure. Rebooted. Restarted. Rejuvenated. Basking in the present. Excited by how the future is looking... I’m definitely a romantic and relationship oriented. In fact, relationships (friends and lovers with emotionally and physically available people) matter most to me. Laughter is King. I value honesty, transparency and effective communication. I have a tendency to be drawn to big personalities and people who are accomplished and successful in their own right. I love one-on-one and small groups, but definitely enjoy hitting the dance floor or celebrating in a crowd on occasion (New Year’s Eve in Rio and Mardi Gras in Australia are on my “soon-to-be” list). I can be very focused on my work and enjoy a little wild abandon at times. Sometimes I can be a bit too deep and other times a bit too frivolous. I’m still close friends with my ex’s. And they have all met one another and get along. And if you saw them in a line-up, you’d scratch your head and think to yourself, ’So what Brian's type?’ Sparks fly when sparks fly. When it’s palpable, it’s real. And when you are a multifaceted enigmatic person, there are many potential points of connection. But it can still be few and far between. Basically... it’s like wearing sunglasses while looking for a needle in a gaystack. You’re more likely to find it by FEELING your way through the sifting process... Didi I just write that? LOL.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 32 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any