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59 | Los Angeles, California

My current greatest challenge is finishing the book I have been writing for a number of years.

He enjoys the pleasures of the senses, yet he is firmly grounded in reality.

Because he is broad-minded, adaptable and playful, as well as dependable and loyal, he can be an exciting yet stable and dedicated friend and colleague.

He seeks a partner who is moral and cooperative. Yet he or she has to have his level of energy and curiosity too.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct

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in his own words...

I am passionate about my life, my work, my spiritual journey, and the person I would share my life with. I have been described as intense, laid-back, very intelligent, passionate, compassionate, emotional, adorable, handsome, spiritual, creative, fun-loving, athletic, inspiring, honest, direct, challenging, loyal, witty, funny, .....and, as you well know, there is also the other adjectives to describe me (or else I wouldn't be widowed and looking for 'love' on the internet!) I'm looking for a woman who is : Physically attractive, aware of and values her spiritual journey, playful, comfortable with who she is and also who she is with, intelligent, doesn't take herself too seriously, financially secure, ambitious, loves the outdoors, physically fit, sensual, comfortable doing nothing as well as ?????... I'm not looking for a fairy tale, just the real thing. For me that means I have a growing preference for the ordinary in my life, and, when I slow down and am really present (instead of in the past or future), I discover the 'extraordinary' in the ordinary. Don't get me wrong here, I do enjoy traveling to nice places, having new experiences, etc., but all that's a bonus. I feel joy experiencing something wonderful, and at the same time, feel sadness about not having someone to share that joy with. I can get excited by the energy of 'initial attraction'. I don't, however get, confuse that 'initial attraction' with genuine love. I believe that a committed, loving relationship takes work and a commitment to grow with each other (after the 'honeymoon'). That's the wonderfully mysterious journey I seek to share with a life partner!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • More than $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Black
  • Hair color:
    • Grey
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 65
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any