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James

56 | Los Angeles, California

Looking for more than just a pretty face.

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Photography

in his own words...

I am passionate about my life, my work, my spiritual journey, and the person I would share my life with. I have been described as intense, laid-back, very intelligent, passionate, compassionate, emotional, adorable, handsome, spiritual, creative, fun-loving, athletic, inspiring, honest, direct, challenging, loyal, witty, funny, .....and, as you well know, there is also the other adjectives to describe me (or else I wouldn't be widowed and looking for 'love' on the internet!) I'm looking for a woman who is : Physically attractive, aware of and values her spiritual journey, playful, comfortable with who she is and also who she is with, intelligent, doesn't take herself too seriously, financially secure, ambitious, loves the outdoors, physically fit, sensual, comfortable doing nothing as well as ?????... I'm not looking for a fairy tale, just the real thing. For me that means I have a growing preference for the ordinary in my life, and, when I slow down and am really present (instead of in the past or future), I discover the 'extraordinary' in the ordinary. Don't get me wrong here, I do enjoy traveling to nice places, having new experiences, etc., but all that's a bonus. I feel joy experiencing something wonderful, and at the same time, feel sadness about not having someone to share that joy with. I can get excited by the energy of 'initial attraction'. I don't, however get, confuse that 'initial attraction' with genuine love. I believe that a committed, loving relationship takes work and a commitment to grow with each other (after the 'honeymoon'). That's the wonderfully mysterious journey I seek to share with a life partner! My current greatest challenge is finishing the book I have been writing for a number of years. I look forward to meeting you....

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 65
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral