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Jess

43 | Los Angeles, California

I Know I Am But What Are You?

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I am always doing new things
  • I am very empathetic

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in her own words...

Me: Vivacious, curvacious, healthy, and strong, I'm super-powered with passion and fierce loyalty.. I am successful in business, make my own money, kill my own spiders (or really, I let them go outside) but I am also a hot mix of opposites - tender and tenacious, silly and serious, independent and seeking intimate partnership. I was born in the midwest, grew up in Miami, and have been in LA for 12 years, working in the media to make a difference in the lives of girls and women. I don't freak out when plans change, am fairly spontaneous, love to travel (do a lot for work), relish talking to strangers and making friends wherever I go (from coffee shop to the post office). I look people in the eye, I hug a lot, and I try my best to speak my truth. I am open and expressive, a solid friend, and looking to develop a relationship based on communication, humor and mutual respect. I believe love itself is easy and effortless. Relationships, however, take work and I'm up for that journey. You: You are a kind man who isn't afraid of his own strength or strong women. You crave witty banter, passionate intimacy, and real emotional connection. You aren't allergic to volunteering and you want to talk about things going on in the world. You are respectful and interested in cultivating a relationship. Us: We are dear and delicious friends. We laugh because it turns us on. I let you win at Scrabble or Poker. We move out in the world like two people who give a damn - about each other, about the community, and about being fully alive. We fight because that's normal - but we pledge to communicate and do it respectfully. We just choose to try to do it a bit better than our parents and differently from our divorced friends. We're better versions of ourselves when we're together.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral