PRIMARY

BUILDER

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

(he also shows elements of this type)

Benson

57 | Los Angeles, California

I am looking to simply find someone that shares my interests for companionship and whatever comes naturally.

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules

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His 21 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in his own words...

I'm a single father of one boy and a girl they live with my mom in Italy. I enjoy the simple things in life and believe that everyday should be enjoyed by seeing the cup half full. I'm happy with what I have and don't miss or yearn for what I don't have. I've been waiting for God to bring me the one in an overwhelming, undeniable way and I've passed on many opportunities in favor of waiting for Miss Right. I now realize that God may have brought me to this website to use as a tool to find her as she is waiting for me within its pages. I love a good movie, lots of music, especially 70's rock and an acoustic guitar anywhere outdoors. I love a good campfire or a fireplace in a cabin on a cold winter’s night. I'm not much of a drinker, but I do like a good beer with the right meal or sharing a bottle of wine with someone special. I love to be poolside on a hot summer’s day or in the middle of a meadow under the stars on a warm summer’s night. I love the warm feeling from heart you get when you embrace a loved one, share a deep laugh, seeing your baby being born and watching the funny things they do as they grow. A simple 'I love you" with a soft kiss can make you glow as well. These feelings of spirit are what truly make us happy and are the most important things in this world. I'm pretty conservative concerning most things, yet a bit of a rebel as well. If a crowd of people were to run in one direction, I'd run the other just to be different. It takes me a while to open up to someone I've just met. I think most people would consider me to be stuck up, but I'm really just shy. I'd prefer a walk in the country over a drunken day at the golf course. A day in the sunshine over a day at the casino. I'm searching for someone I can trust! She needs to mean and do what she says she's going to do. She must be genuine with no false personalities or mind games. She needs to care about herself and those around her. She should be kind and understanding as I will be to her. She need

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 49 - 68
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any