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54 | Los Angeles, California

Seeking My Mensa Hunk of a Man (aka my Needle in a Haystack). Hoping for sparks that lead to LTR. Be smart, be sexy, be fun... like me!

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules

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Please note: I will ONLY respond to emails, nothing else. You MUST have a CURRENT CLEAR photo as I've described below and you MUST also fit the criteria I've clearly listed here with regards to distance and other characteristics. I apologize for being so particular but I must be as I don't have a lot of time to be spending here. We are ALL looking for a special match. It's not easy for anyone so that is why I am trying to be as specific here as possible, no sense wasting your time or mine. Thanks in advance. So that said.... I'm a very independent sort, you have to be able to appreciate this in a woman. I'm not in need of someone 24-7 but would love it if you make me wanna be! Well.... not really. I would rather CRAVE for you and that does take absence! Also important: I never fell for a guy who's IQ was less than 150. I found this out AFTER being with them for awhile. I don't care for NERDY types but intelligence seems to be very important, maybe because my IQ is up there, too. I also like a man who takes care of his appearance and cares somewhat about fashion. If you're scruffy and/or way overweight, we can surely be friends but I would NEVER find myself attracted to you. It's not prejudice, I just don't get aroused by this. Do you like your women this way? If not, and you are this way... well DO SOMETHING ABOUT FIXING YOURSELF UP! As we age, it's even MORE important. As a woman, I MUST and DO take care of my body and appearance! So you MUST, too, if you want me to consider dating you. I would also say sense of humor is important but who can know till we meet if we jibe... I don't TYPE funny... I just kind of am... you'll get me or you won't.... so 'nuff said. I'll hope you show your good looking face along with your intelligence, consideration, empathy for others, loyalty, creativity AND MORE to me some day soon. If not... well, I'm actually very happily single.... it would just be nice if I found there really is such a thing as a "soul mate for everyone"....

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 65
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral