(this is his dominant personality type)



(he also shows elements of this type)


52 | Los Angeles, California

I am a nobody , got nothing impressive to offer; not a prince charming nor a knight in shining armor(wish i were).

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

find out your type »

His 14 interests

« »


Dining out




Performing arts

Playing Sports





Watching sports



in his own words...

I recognize I will have to learn to date all over again with the changes in life, the times and me. I will handle this with grace and poise. At least I hope you say so! When I do meet someone mutually attracted to each other, then I am looking forward to the adventure of getting to know that interesting, bright and happy lady and enjoying each others company. Then I will be what I have been for the past 21 years. Total loyal, fateful and reliable to that lady in my life.My friends and family consider me a very grounded responsible man, who is very loving but strong. Friends and family seem to consider me competent, very tolerant, not shy but not brash either. I am the custodial parent with my daughter living with me,a good very independent kid of amazing poise, charm, and whit, if you like me you will like her. She is the center of my world and very engaging pleasant company when she is involved Someone who is kind and honest - i'm not in to game players! Trust me, there are a few of you of you on here. I like to laugh and i think it's important people don't take themselves too seriously, so a sense of humour is a must. An optimistic outlook on life, enjoys exploring other cultures, music and spontaneous adventure. And there must be chemistry, i'm holding out for sparks! I'm fairly independent so would like that person to have a healthy attitude to relationships. I'm not looking for a couch potato, avid computer gamer or someone who thinks the local pub night after night is their idea of 'getting out there'. I want to meet someone who is 'getting out there'. Is this too much to ask? I hope not.

Take the personality test everyone is talking about.

I am a

Seeking a

By clicking "find chemistry now", I agree to receive transactional and promotional emails from I understand that I am free to withdraw consent at any time.

By using our site, you agree to Chemistry's Terms of

About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $200,001 to $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
    • Every day
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral
    • No formal education