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31 | Los Angeles, California

Southern Gentleman looking for a Godly woman

He is popular, trustworthy and dependable. However, He has an impetuous, spontaneous, fun loving side which also makes him exciting.

He admires people who are traditional, responsible, precise and orderly, yet spontaneous, socially savvy and affable.

He likes a partner who has good manners, old-fashioned courtesy, unambiguous values and social grace. Nevertheless, he tries new things and explores new ideas and he particularly likes people who share his energy and curiosity.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in his own words...

Well, here we go... My name is Benjamin. I'm a simple down-to-earth guy who's been very blessed and fortunate for most of my life, but I also have a lot of ambition and drive to learn more and gain an understanding of the world around me. I grew up in Alabama, where I was taught to be a southern gentleman towards ladies and to be respectful towards my elders, to work hard and treat people fairly. In many ways I'm a old-fashioned hopeless romantic, although to be fair, I think just about anyone raised in the south is to some small degree, whether they admit it or not. I have big dreams and love adventure, but I'm also content to count my blessings and find joy in the simple things: an evening in a good book, an enjoyable meal with friends, a thought-provoking work of art, a Saturday morning hike in the canyons around Los Angeles... I'm satisfied with the blessings God has given me. And yet, I want more... I want to learn more, to do more, to be used by the Lord more to accomplish bigger things, even if that just means being able to serve and encourage those whom God has placed in my path. I take my faith seriously and it's important that the one I'm interested in does as well. I desire to grow deeper in my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. In fact, if you're not a Christian, you best move on... not to be too blunt, but it's the only real non-negotiable I have: While I have friends from every walk of life, I will only consider dating someone if they're a believer. Don't worry, I'm not some backwoods Bible-thumper, God knows I'm far from perfect nor do I expect you to be either, but I do believe what I believe very strongly, and would hope any potential matches I meet on here would as well. I'm fiercely loyal to my family and friends, and strive to serve others in as much as God has enabled me to. I've been told that I'm a good listener. I value honesty, trust, reliability, and seek to always treat others the way I would desire to be tr

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Less than $25,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 27
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • Any