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31 | Phoenix, Arizona

I'm an optimistic grab-bag of tired cliches like: "hopeless romantic" and "open book" - and I can't help myself.

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I am tough-minded
  • When making a decision, I like to stick to the facts rather than be swayed by people's feelings

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in his own words...

I am a paradigm. I live a life of moderation and morals. I need stability, but that doesn't mean I'm not spontaneous. I am open and honest and not afraid to speak my mind. I have a tendency of being overly-passionate about things. I'm not sure if that's a flaw. I can come off as a bit of a jerk.. but I always have the best intentions. I am honestly one of the nicest people you will meet. I'm doing very well... At least trying to. If anything, I'm looking to better myself, looking for a change. I'm living day to day. I have plans, many plans with my life. I plan to buy a house soon (as in, this summer), currently getting back into shape, rebuilding and strengthening relationships with friends and family... all examples. I plan to finish everything I've started, whatever it may be. My confidence level is ever increasing and I feel like a new and better me each passing day. I'm somewhat of a perfectionist at whatever I do. I'm really good at making others feel appreciated and wanted. I'm a good, loyal friend. I love to cook and I'm pretty darn good at it. I'm always ready for a culinary challenge. I'm pretty handy around the house. I can throw a decent party. And, I think I'm a good writer - and that I could be a great writer. I'm currently working on, and planning on finishing a novel this summer between semesters. It's my goal to be a writer. Nothing would make me feel more accomplished. It is my dream. I know what I want and need in a man. If I'm interested in you, I will make it known. If I see the possibility of a future with you, I will pursue it. I will not tolerate the obvious (lying, cheating, abuse), but you cannot be arrogant, impulsive, or cold. These attributes clash with my personality and we will not get along - ever. I am the kind of guy who wears his heart out on his sleeve and who says what needs to be said. I'm not asking for much. It's simple, really... I just want someone to want to be with me, as much as I with him.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 24 - 28
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral