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45 | Phoenix, Arizona

Live, Laugh and Love. You only have one life, take it for all it's worth.

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions

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in her own words...

I am nearly always smiling, seeing the glass as half full is important to me. I'm looking for someone who shares that quality with me. I have no drama in my life and prefer it that way. I've been divorced since 1999 and have spent the time since then focusing on my son. It's worked out well because he is a very good boy. On the other hand, I didn't spend time looking out for myself and now I find myself 40 and still single. Now that he is almost 17, I have way too much time on my hands and am ready to focus on myself. My family is extremely important to me, and although I was raised as an only child of two, my brother and I share a very close bond. My parents have taught me that a lasting relationship takes tenacity and hard work. I'm looking for someone that not only agrees, but is also looking to go the distance and will put in everything I will. I need honesty and no secretive behavior in my future mate. I'm an open book and will give the one I care about an all access pass to anything they want to know. I look for the same. I know how to make someone feel like the most special person in the world, and would love to find someone that wants to make me feel that way also. I have the time to dedicate to that special someone and I am looking for someone that has that time or is willing to make the time it takes to nurture a lasting relationship. I'm really not interested in a long distance relationship, so if you are not in the process of moving to Arizona or if you don't live in at least a surrounding city of Phoenix, please, don't email me. I find I am not good at long distance and that is not what I'm looking for. I am a very strong and independent woman. That sometimes makes me come across as hard or unapproachable. In reality, I'm as vulnerable and loving as anyone. I have my opinions and am working on keeping them to myself unless asked. It's VERY difficult for me. But working on ones self is never ending, and through life's challenges, we learn more

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any