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51 | Phoenix, Arizona

Cautious with my heart, but committed to finding that special someone.

She is popular, trustworthy and dependable. However, She has an impetuous, spontaneous, fun loving side which also makes her exciting.

She admires people who are traditional, responsible, precise and orderly, yet spontaneous, socially savvy and affable.

She likes a partner who has good manners, old-fashioned courtesy, unambiguous values and social grace. Nevertheless, she tries new things and explores new ideas and she particularly likes people who share her energy and curiosity.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I am always doing new things

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in her own words...

I am a work in progress as is this intro page. I have been contently divorced since 2008 and have decided now that I am ready to share my life with someone once again. I am fully committed to this process as a means to find someone special. However, I have no intention of becoming a serial dater, so my expectations for success are prety high. As the title says, I am cautious with my heart, but not selfish with it. I've filled out the profile, uploaded the pictures and put myself out there...I am serious about being here. But I am also realistic. Being here is a gamble. And I will not be reckless with the choices that I make. Originally from Illinois, I have been in Arizona since the fall of 2009. This climate has definitely won me over. I am quiet upon a first meeting, but after awhile, I am definitely not shy. I do, however, believe that a relationship needs to start with a foundation of trust and friendship. That trust must be earned and the friendship will grow and develop from there. Both take time. How much is unknown. I believe messaging in the beginning is a good idea. But I will definitely consider breaking my own rule if you give me reason to. I am looking for a man to love me, respect me, protect me and most if all make me laugh. I want strong arms that can wrap around me and a firm hand to hold. While I am quite independent, I can still appreciate a man who will hold open a door. I want a man who is comfortable in his own skin and confident with where he is going in life. I want someone to play with, laugh with, fight with and enjoy even the little things. I want someone who really hears me when I speak and someone that I can regard with awe because he is mine. I am NOT interested in playing games or being a booty call. If this is what you are here for just move along. If you are unsure th

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 53
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral