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45 | Phoenix, Arizona

Dream, explore, laugh, create, and skip often...

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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I sometimes feel like a cornucopia of contradictions. I’ve made a career of building hot rods and race cars that get 2-5 mpg, and recently returned from two months at the Earthship academy in Taos. I am told I look menacing and have a kind heart. I tend to ask more questions than have answers. I observe our ways of relating to the planet, our political systems, food productions, cultural attentions and dogmas, and still have a lot of faith in our species. I often look at mans cleverness and limitations while keeping the big picture of our species and planet in site. I believe Carl Sagan nailed describing this moment in human history as technological adolescence. I tend to ask the question “what else could be true?” quite often. I am a single parent of an amazing 16 year old girl. I have either got lucky, done a few things well, or both. Equality, good questions and honesty seem to go a long way. I tend to use my TV as a monitor for movies and documentaries; I enjoy learning new things, exploring roads less traveled and am thankful again for the cooler Arizona weather. Who am I looking for? Intelligence and common sense are both sexy! A woman who asks good questions, is confident, loyal to her family and friends, and enjoys herself. It’s probably a plus if: Your viewpoints on religion and spirituality are not fixed in structured beliefs. You sometimes laugh out loud at your own thoughts, Your friends can depend on you You like who you are and wish to improve her You play often and have skipped recently You occasionally marvel at the smallest and largest details of life You are interested vs. interesting There is certainly plenty more to learn about me, and for me to learn about you, so if you like let’s play.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Auburn / Red
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any