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Melissa

36 | Phoenix, Arizona

Be careless in your dress if you will, but keep a tidy soul. - Mark Twain

She is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet she also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those she loves.

Because she is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, her close friends admire her. Yet her complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

She is attracted to someone who can complement her-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • It is important to respect authority
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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in her own words...

At the risk of committing wink-suicide here, I've decided that brutal honesty is the best policy. As much as I would love to say I'm a super-model, rocket-scientist, with a heart of gold, I'd be lying. I'm only about 5"6 in my tallest heels and the closest I've gotten to rocket science is firecrackers on the fourth of july. I do, actually, have a good heart and I'm looking for the same in a match. I don't like pretention or materialism. I am a professional and I do wear a suit to work, but I'm much more comfortable and myself in jeans and a t-shirt. I'm suspicious of anyone who enjoys the gym too much. I'd rather be running or walking outside where exercise is less work and more play. You would be surprised how similar running back and forth after a 2 year old in the back yard can feel like doing "suicides" in the gym after work. The top qualities I value in people are work ethic, kindness, humility, and a dry sense of humor. I would much rather meet a nice guy than a guy with a nice car, but I am driven, ambitious, and stable and am looking for someone with those qualities as well. You wouldn't ever guess it from meeting or talking to me, but I'm a southern Texas girl, born and raised. And I do miss the kind of Southern sweetness that means you always open the door for the person coming in behind you (not gender specific) and always waive and smile and say "howdy" to the people you pass on the street. So, if a t-shirt wearing, piano playing, single-mom lawyer with a good heart and a slightly juvenile sense of humor appeals to you, then you are probably nuts, but should contact me anyhow. At least for the sake of establishing that such taste in women exist. I, for one, would be glad to know of you.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral