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37 | Phoenix, Arizona

Iconoclast seeks Voluptuous Vixen

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful
  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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in his own words...

If I had to describe myself in one word, it would be "iconoclastic". Most people tell me they've never met anyone like me. I believe in chivalry. I'll open the door for you and move you to the inside if we're walking down the street. I'm a self-taught amateur chef. People have told me they'd kill for my Risotto. I'm not into sports--for me, the big game is Iron Chef or Hell's Kitchen. I'm a passionate supporter of gay rights and other anti-prejudicial endeavors. I also sing a lot of karaoke...sometimes competitively. I'm also a big fan of stand-up comedy...the more eloquently vulgar, the better. My underlying philosophy on life is "be who you are and make no apologies". I don't drink or smoke cigarettes. Drinking doesn't bother me as long as it's not frequently excessive. I do utilize an herbal remedy for medical reasons so please be ok with that. I'm an Atheist and a Secular Humanist, so I'm not a good match for someone who is devoutly religious. Please take note--I find this to be a major point of compatibility. I have zero problem with belief in a higher power or spirituality-it's the dogmatic institutions and people who think their way is the only way that I have a problem with. I can't get behind any person or organization that is against homosexuality or personal freedom. I'm attracted to curvy/voluptuous/BBW offense to anyone else--it's just how I'm wired. I'm naughty but nice, edgy but caring, sarcastic but sweet, intellectual without being snobby, and (i like to think) confident without being arrogant. I'm a highly sexual person, but that's not all I want out of a relationship--there's whole lot more to me than that--but my ideal match should have a similar appetite. I find this to be a major point of compatibility. Beyond that, I'm an open book...feel free to ask me anything.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 41
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any