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Arch Stanton

46 | Phoenix, Arizona

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do." -Mark Twain

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • It is important to respect authority

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in his own words...

If you've ever grabbed life by the horns and then been gored, I feel for you. But that doesn't excuse you from getting up again to keep running with the bulls. The question isn't "what are we going to do," the question is "what aren't we going to do?" So how do you play? Vanilla or vanilla with chocolate sprinkles? Definitely not! It has to be chocolate, with large swirls of vanilla, and packed with dark chocolate chunks. The part of my life that is 'missing' something really has nothing extraordinary to be described. I am looking for a short smile so full of meaning that it fills my heart with happiness from across the room. I want someone to touch and be touched in return. Often your feet against my leg while sitting on the couch watching movies or listening to music is better than sex. Appreciate the dinner I put together or enjoy my key lime pie (entirely from scratch, except for the crust of course) by simply saying "It was good". Dance a crazy dance in the living room at the spur of the moment to "Macarena" or the Scissor Sisters simply because I blast the stereo. Listen with half an ear as I expound on political topics and news items that caught my attention. You don't even have to agree. Tell me when I have a smudge of mustard on my lips; or don't and find humor in it. But be ready to shed any prudishness and wallow in the wantonness that physical intimacy and intensity bring when approached without inhibitions. Value dreams and cherish memories, and I will do the same in return. Trust, and receive devotion. Definitely looking for a partner in crime or life adventurer and journeyer. Applications are being accepted. Or am I applying in response to your ad? This is so confusing. Either way, the rest of this process is up to you the reader. More information about me is available and you don't have to submit your questions ahead of time in writing. Let's just meet for lunch and conversation instead.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any