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45 | Phoenix, Arizona

Fantastic relationships happen when people connect on many levels, and find joy with each other. No games or drama; just laughs!

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

I'm up for just about anything with the right person. Dining, drinks, movies, travel, etc. I'm not the type that has to be in a relationship to be happy, but if a serious relationship made me happy, I don't question it. Be real, honest, straight forward and I will be with you. I want my face to hurt from smiling, while I do my best to enjoy life. There's no ONE THING I love to do, in fact, I tend to change things up. Currently, I'm on a work-out kick trying to get in tip-top shape...and doing good so far. I have two bright teenagers that value their independence, which translates to mean that although I'm very involved with my kids I still have lots of time for a social life. I play poker at home games, and I like to laugh, travel when I can, attend sporting events, etc. Yes, I do have time to date, travel and to get to know that special someone. Let's see...what I'm looking for? Well, perhaps it's easier to start with what I'm not looking for....I'm NOT looking for my next wife to clean my house, do my laundry, cook, or to be a mother to my kids. My kids have a good mother, and my kids and I cook and clean for ourselves just fine. Don't take that wrong... I love a good meal, and you're more than welcome to scrub the toilets if it makes you happy!!! I'm looking for someone that's sexy and confident, not jealous and in need of constant reassurance. I like confidence and will feed it with compliments. I like sexy and will dress it with attention (and lingerie). ;) I'm looking for someone that's already happy as a person, not that I have to make happy...then we can laugh at each other!!! I'm not one to insult, but ya gotta be able to take a poke (a joke) aimed at ya without feeling butt hurt. I'm looking for someone that I can share the craziest thoughts with....aspirations, stupid ideas, contrary opinions (even if I don't believe them), and wild fantasies. I'm looking for someone to take spur of the moment trips with, and to plan tri

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any